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My wife wanted natural delivery for all out children, but our first daughter was breech. The obstetrician, woman, favored natural deliveries, not c-sections, and saw no need for ultrasounds. My wife said she just didn't feel right, something was wrong, and an ultrasound was done and indicated a footling breech position, the most dangerous for both baby and momma. My wife tried natural several techniques suggested by the obstetrician to have the baby move to a normal or at least buttucks first breech position, a bit safer. Nothing worked. She was recommended to see an obstetrician who was supposedly skilled in manual reversions. I cringed and left the room while the procedure was done. The doctor was convinced he was successful. An ultrasound still showed a footling breech. The original obstetrician said she had successfully delivered breech birthings of all positions, so when my wife went into labor she hoped for a natural delivery as did the doctor, but was prepared for a C-section because of what the ultrasounds revealed. I was in the room when my wifes labor was painful and long, then required an emergency C-section with my wife insisting I stay in the room. Our first born was birthed via C-section and when I saw her, she looked like an angel. Now 36 years later my oldest daughter has given birth to three healthy babies, the first a C-section in the hospital; the next two natural with a mid-wife in her bedroom. My wife went on to have 4 more children, all natural vaginal births. But I recall how helpful we found the ultrasounds for our first child and for my wife. Without them my wife's plan was to give birth in our home, which given the breech position could have ended the life of both my wife and my first daughter.

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Thank you. I wish I had this advice. Way back when. And it is sad how much “old wives tales“ were so much wiser than we are today. We have a family member who nearly aborted, because the doctors assured her that her child was going to be born with multiple birth defects. Luckily, they didn’t listen. The child came out perfect!

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